Bryon Katie, the creator of The Work, has done a brilliant job of teaching us how to be aware of whose business we are in with our thoughts. There is God’s business, someone else’s business, and our own business. In many ways, the ‘claim your life as your own’ work that I do is all [...]
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Your work is to discover your life and with all your heart to give yourself to it.” – Buddha
When you claim your life, a life grounded in your own body, you discover your deepest self beyond the conditioned mind. As you integrate Presence into your life, you naturally share your unique gifts with your world.
You [...]
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Posted in Awakening, Relationship with Self, Relatonships, Self-realization, Well-being, Wholeness, authenticity, co dependency, inner confidence, inner peace on Jul 7th, 2010
Inner confidence flows naturally when we are connected to our core, the spacious peace that is our natural state. This spaciousness/stillness/emptiness is the Big Love, beyond the confines of the personality.
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Posted in Awakening, Relationship with Self, Relatonships, Self-realization, Well-being, Wholeness, authenticity, co dependency, inner confidence, inner peace on Jun 30th, 2010
In my last post, I shared, “inner confidence is not about gaining something. What is really happening is an inhibition to the natural flow of life. There is a block to Life. Natural confidence that resides deeply within us when we rest into peace/stillness/spaciousness is always, always present.” This is the primary key to [...]
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Relationships get messy sometimes. Messy relationships are part of life and happen for everyone.
I witness this in my own relationships, not just with my significant other. Feelings get triggered here and there. Different points of view stir the pot of the identity called ‘me’. The mirror in front of me reflects back the identity of [...]
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What do you notice when you go after love? When you please, want to be liked, need to belong and feel accepted, and/or seek approval? In other words, what do you notice when you come from need?
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If you’re a person who is naturally giving, there may be times when you indiscriminately direct this giving energy. In other words, you may hear and try to respond to everyone around you who is in need. You may forget that you get to choose where you direct your energy.
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What is love? When we go within to our very core and rest in the stillness/peace/spaciousness, we know and experience that love is ever-present. In our natural state, the heart is open and love flows through us, replenishing us and all those around us. Love simply is; there is nothing to do.
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For many of the clients who I’ve been privileged to coach responsibility meant over-responsibility, in actuality. What I mean by this is that their openness to question and address what their part is in any relationship dynamic is in the ballpark of self-responsibility…and inner confidence. When responsibility was taken for the other person’s part as [...]
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In our culture, it is very familiar to read, hear, and deeply understand from our own experience what it is like to seek confidence, exude confidence, and feel confident or ‘a lack thereof’ which is usually labelled as insecure. Confidence is something to be desired and attained, and insecurity is to be overcome.
When I added [...]
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