Bryon Katie, the creator of The Work, has done a brilliant job of teaching us how to be aware of whose business we are in with our thoughts. There is God’s business, someone else’s business, and our own business. In many ways, the ‘claim your life as your own’ work that I do is all [...]
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Posted in Awakening, Relationship with Self, Relatonships, Self-realization, Well-being, Wholeness, authenticity, co dependency, inner confidence, inner peace on Jul 7th, 2010
Inner confidence flows naturally when we are connected to our core, the spacious peace that is our natural state. This spaciousness/stillness/emptiness is the Big Love, beyond the confines of the personality.
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Posted in Awakening, Relationship with Self, Relatonships, Self-realization, Well-being, Wholeness, authenticity, co dependency, inner confidence, inner peace on Jun 30th, 2010
In my last post, I shared, “inner confidence is not about gaining something. What is really happening is an inhibition to the natural flow of life. There is a block to Life. Natural confidence that resides deeply within us when we rest into peace/stillness/spaciousness is always, always present.” This is the primary key to [...]
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The word, confidence, comes up a lot in our culture. It’s at the core of the work that I do through my writing, coaching, and leading of retreats. It’s been the biggest piece of my own personal journey.
What I now see is that confidence is essentially founded upon a concept of the mind that has [...]
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What do you notice when you go after love? When you please, want to be liked, need to belong and feel accepted, and/or seek approval? In other words, what do you notice when you come from need?
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Committing to listening to the voice of your heart can be a radical act. Sometimes it gives us information that we’d rather ignore because there’s a part of us that wants something different. Sometimes it requires a lot of courage to follow through on its message. Sometimes it can lead us into the unknown. And, [...]
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Posted in Wholeness, authenticity on Apr 15th, 2010
Men and women have an inner feminine and inner masculine. The inner feminine is the aspect within that is feeling, nurturing, loving, intuitively aware of others, and highly motivated to relate to and connect with others. The feminine lives in the heart.
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Do you really know deep in your bones that you – and only you – get to choose what your life is about?
A client of mine, in the corporate world as well as being a mother, realized that her high expectations of her mate kept intimacy at bay when she tried to get him to behave differently. [...]
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Is this the most beautiful and loving life I can possibly imagine and create? And if not, the question then becomes – what is the most beautiful and loving life that I can possibly imagine and create?
This time of year as we transition into a new year holds the possibility of inspiring deep reflection about where [...]
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When we direct our attention within to the very core, our true nature, we find ourselves experiencing a sense of peace and spaciousness that is always, always present. We are essentially that presence, that awareness, that stillness.
In this resting in our true nature, inner confidence flourishes. We trust life. We trust that our decisions come [...]
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